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John Ingram
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Re: Basic State of Our Country.
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Reply #720 on:
November 16, 2008, 07:06:45 PM »
Yes, Teri, renting is a both ways thing. When we moved out to the bush here for a few years we rented out and i used to dread coming back here and looking over the wall to see the state of things. When we eventually moved back in it took a while to get things right again and renting it out actually cost us money. I suppose we got off light with 27 nails in the walls, one burned carpet and and the pool running on Harpic!!!They say an empty house is better than a bad tenant but bills have to be paid.
What is th eideal place to look for? if you have a house there are stairs but a bungalow has a bigger garden to look after. I haven't lived with stairs since I was a kid, they didn't seem an issue then but I am not so sure when we have aged a bit!!And I am no gardener either. I see many houses in England have gardens with only gravel and paving stones like a big grave. Flats are not much cheaper to rent than houses, is that because of there being no garden to look after?? What is the ideal pad for today's pensioner?
Happy days,
J+J
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ansu
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November 16, 2008, 09:04:15 PM »
John that's a good question. Ten years ago I bought a rather old terraced house (i.e. five houses in one row) and renovated it. I live on three floors plus cellar. At that time I thought it would be ideal for me - the stairs would keep me in shape, the garden won't be too big and it's not too far away from the town centre.
Today I see the situation different - having from time to time knee problems and getting older the stairs are sometimes a burden and as to the garden, two years ago I asked an gardener to make it "easy to care for".
I think living in a flat - having all rooms on one floor - and a caretaker for sweeping the pavements, removing the snow in winter and making small repairs, if necessary, would be ideal. However, the idea of sitting just on a small balcony instead of a big terrace is something I don't like at all - above all as now with the change in climate we have many rather warm and agreeable "summer evenings".
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mac
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November 17, 2008, 08:57:46 AM »
Hello Folks as some will know I live in a flat,have done for the last ten years,I wouldnt go back to my big house for the world.It is ecconomical to run,we have a gardener,and an area for sitting out in the summer weather permitting,and an area for drying clothes,no repair worries,for this I pay £150 a year which breaks down very cheaply,this includes insurance for buildings etc.I know it can be a lot dearer in other flats but we do our own maintainance we dont have a company do it thus the low costs.And also there are only 8 flats very easy to manage.
Teri thats why I moved on,how many of those rooms do you actually use ? but they still have to be maintained and heated.
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ansu
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November 17, 2008, 09:54:26 AM »
There you are right, Mac. However, lately my friends and my family discover that it's quite comfortable to make short holidays with me - everyone has his/her own bedroom!
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John Ingram
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November 17, 2008, 11:09:14 AM »
Too much space can be a problem, but where do you put things. I have many friends here who have downsized to flats and townhouses and they had to get rid of many precious things. I was amazed at the lack of storage spaces in English houses, where do people keep their clothes without wardrobes and spare curtains, blankets and such without storage. Is that why houses have a shed in the garden??
Lovely day today, Jacqui and Victoria are doing the garden. Take a look at
http://s229.photobucket.com/albums/ee286/janner41/
to see the workers!! I can't help them, my turn to do lunch!!!
Keep smiling
J+J
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mac
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November 17, 2008, 09:21:01 PM »
I looked at the photo John theres only one there !thought I was going to see a few lol
Well you know what John I had a load of junk really when I move here,still got a load of junk really,just not as much!! lol but I still have my precious things.
Hows the sale going lad,and hows grannie doing ?
have you got new camera ? its nice to put a face to a name lol
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John Ingram
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November 18, 2008, 03:14:07 AM »
No, mac, no new camera, that's just the camera in my cellphon`e. Actually I shouls store some more pics on that site, ome day we will need r`eminding!! This country would amze you at one side of a building is the finest luxury, at the other is squalor, but that is the African Way. Victoria loves to be here, sshe says that weekends are boring at home. She has a nice family too.
Granny is doing fine, she has plenty of people to wait on her now, but is still very demanding if we visit. She seems to keep a list in her head of things Jacqui must do and it literally gets Jacqui's blood pressure right up!!! She looks very relaxed. bUt this house is far too big and we could never keep it going without help. The main bedroom is nearly 20 feet square on it's own and it is a long walk to the kitchen. Small houses certainly have their good points and `now is the time to be clearing out but it is hard, especially with the things one worked so hard to get at one time. I'll take some garden pics today, not that is amazing, it is just huge at a third of an acre but my gardeners are doing well. Our garden services close over Christmas for two weeka so I just hire a casual to come and cut the lawn, it gives someone a little money to take home.
Christmas soon already, I wonder what Father Christmas will bring??? According to Sky News the shops will be quit there. We don't do anything special at CHristmas, and it makes us laugh the way they fill up with artificial snow and hordes of black Father CHristmases!! I wonder what "Ho-ho-ho" is in Zulu?!! lol
Cheers
J+J
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ansu
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November 18, 2008, 09:35:27 AM »
X-mas, a good keywword, John. One of my friends has lived for more than twenty years in South Africa (until her husband got ill) and she told us that the brother of her husband always ordered a X-mas tree from Germany, put it up near the swimming pool and decorated it with wax candles which due to the heat there started to bend soon. As in Germany they gathered round the X-mas tree and sang German X-mas carols.
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John Ingram
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November 18, 2008, 01:54:41 PM »
It still seems a little odd to even contemplate eating turkey and pudding next to the pool in the middle of summer, and setting up a Europe style Christmas tree with snow on looks silly. It has been suggested that here we should adopt the african thorn tree and decorate that. We will just have salads, I think. Just relax. I always think about those who sspend Christmas alone, and those in essential services who cannot be with their families. I have had a couple of Christmases alone, and it wasn't fun ... but it wasn't like Mr Bean's either!!!
J+J
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mac
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November 18, 2008, 02:13:20 PM »
Hello
I had last christmas alone by which I mean I made my own dinner,they visited me for half an hour,then all went to their mothers meaning the wives.Thats the way it is when you are the mother-in-law lol.It wasnt that bad really,just another day and I had my lovely pc thank god.
I made lots of phone calls to me friends who are too far away and maybe a bit lonely,thankfully my phone is free in the uk and Isle of Man.
Might be the same this year too nobody has said anything yet !!! let you all know lol
I think things are never the same when you are widowed,there always seems something missing,and always come home to the empty house.But at least I have a home.
Talking of which I have a lot of storage space here have two large walk-in cupboards,(both full)lol fitted wardrobes,and loads of kitchen cupboards,it is definitely me with too much stuff !!! every now and again I de-clutter but in the main I dont let it bother me too much I am a very tidy person in the main.You have to be ruthless John,its the only way.
Christmas in the sun ? just do what the natives do,what do they do ? lol
have fun
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ansu
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November 18, 2008, 02:16:02 PM »
How true, John. However, one year I went into a hotel with a travelling group - it was nice, but somehow a strange feeling to celebrate X-mas with strangers.
I think in this connection I should mention that X-mas in the German speaking countries is celebrated quite different from that in the rest of the world. Our main day is December 24th - Holy Eve - and usually we get a bit sentimental.
Although our churches are empty on Sundays, on Holy Eve you have to be on time to get a seat there.
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John Ingram
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November 19, 2008, 09:49:38 AM »
Holy Eve sounds lovely, ansu. Jacqui tells me thaaaaaat Xmas Eve is also a big thing in France. People sometimes say that it is all for children but I don't feel that way, it is for everyone. I used to love going to midnight mass in England, it was so special. Funny things that come to mind with memories like right now I am remembering having a cold nose walking to church and how the sound of your footseps seem to bounce off the walls more when it is winter. LOvelymemories
J+J
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griselda buttercup
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November 19, 2008, 06:58:26 PM »
could someone please tell me why all my messages within this debate have been marked remove, I am new to this sort of debate so I am rather upset by this who actually decides someone isn't welcome to put their comments in if I have said the wrong thing fine tell but to find that my comments are all tagged remove please what slip up I have made.
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mac
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November 19, 2008, 07:06:03 PM »
Hi John
Fond memories indeed,we used to go to midnight mass too,the come home and open our presents !!!! thus my parents got a bit of a lie in lol
I continued to do this too with my own kids now alas no midnight mass !!!
Christmas eve is very special it has an atmosphere dont you think ?
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mac
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November 19, 2008, 07:07:30 PM »
Hello Geraldine
I have no idea who edits this site you could ask Maurice.
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