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Phoenix
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« Reply #30 on: January 16, 2009, 10:07:25 PM »

Bad habits once in the human system, are hard to eradicate. Take Motorists ??  Too Lazy to Indicate correctly, If at all?HuhHuh Using Mobile Phones Illegal!! Repeated Crimes, most definately Illegal!!  Excess Drink and Drugs etc:
Just what is so wrong with being 'taught' good habits and why is it so hard, to retain those Good habits Huh
 can 'those' people be re - Educated, to be a Good Citizen.
 Not much success so far!!
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geordie
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« Reply #31 on: January 17, 2009, 05:54:06 PM »

I'm not a driver and when I see the way many drive today I'm glad, I'd be terrified.
May-be the new changes to the driving test that are planned for later this year will improve things , or am being to optimistic. Undecided
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macushla
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« Reply #32 on: January 17, 2009, 06:40:14 PM »

But dont you think it is easy to cure ?
ban them, dont give them a fine or points on their licence just ban them they will think twice then !
easy peasy !
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Phoenix
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« Reply #33 on: January 17, 2009, 10:57:01 PM »

Hi Mac, I fail to see the point in 'playing' with motorists, ie. Points ?? Bah!!  A motorist does know when 'they' are doing wrong, so lets have No Excuses, Just take their Driving License Away!! -- As with Motorists and their mobile phones (while driving) Easy peasy!! Take their phone away and Destroy it while they Watch!! ----
Maybe ??  Just Maybe, they will Learn HuhHuh??
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macushla
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« Reply #34 on: January 17, 2009, 11:06:04 PM »

I f they knew they would lose their home they might just think twice Phoenix !
and lets face it whats a fine..........just money ! the poor dont pay it and the rich dont care.
But the people who fine them get richer ! well someone does.
The people in the middle abide by the rules in the main.
With a little bit of common sense this place could be still sorted.
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Phoenix
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« Reply #35 on: January 17, 2009, 11:18:44 PM »

Hi Mac, I sure agree with that. just a little 'common sense' nothing too heavy to think about, then 'they' might see reason ?? --- Would'nt it be lovelly Huh
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Chris
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« Reply #36 on: January 18, 2009, 11:36:06 AM »

Money?Huh? To us older ones money is always tight, but for the younger generations it seems that they can get it from anywhere, the source is not important.

So to fine the offenders (Youngsters) it has no effect and anyway they can get a forged licence on the black market.

To destroy their phones would be against their human rights, and to make them homeless, hey there is always a do gooder out there to pull them out of the smelly stuff.

The age of voting is 18. Yet we see drivers on the roads aged 17 years old, they are allowed to drive a piece of equipment that can KILL yet not vote. The law should be changed. Keep the age of voting at 18, I believe that the youth has something to offer society. But the age of holding a full driving licence should be 21, provisional licences can be applied for at the age of 18 and not before. That way for two years 18-21 year olds would be supervised when out on the Road.

There is talk about Children being kept at School until they are 18 years of age, the way I see things if that happens and the laws of the road remain as they are, Schools will be forced into building car parks for said Children to park their cars.

The system require a complete overhaul and be bought up to date with modern Laws and requirements.
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« Reply #37 on: January 18, 2009, 06:10:54 PM »

I'm a bit fed up with knocking   young parents of today, its our fault if they can't do it, they are our youngsters, we had the help of the community and maybe family around but these parents seem totally on their own, I would hate to be young in these times but each generation is different and I'm sure our parents thought this about us, the human race will continue not with our values maybe but a new set of their  own, not all parents are bad and not all youngsters are drug addicts, I know it seems like it to us but please they really do need our help. I see young mums try and struggle onto buses with buggies, bags and toddlers, I had a conductor to help so I try to give a hand where I can. Kids do seem awful and out of hand, I'm just thankful they don't live with me, but look into the parents eyes, they seem just as unhappy as the kids sound.


I just read your post Chris and I'm glad the driving license isn't 21, my lad wouldn't have a job if that was the case, its very difficult, well impossible to carry workmens tools on public transport and I think the forces would struggle even more without young drivers. Also the youngsters that work nights and shifts, I think without a driving license work would be impossible if you lived in the country. How are they going to force kids to stay on at school until they're 18, I think that would put more pressure on parent/child relationships if the youngsters wanted to get out to work.
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macushla
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« Reply #38 on: January 18, 2009, 09:50:12 PM »

Val,I have said many times on this forum that not all the kids are bad this I know for sure.
I agree whole heartedly with them being able to drive at 18,I was married at 18 I could not vote or have a drink,or even get married my dad had to sign.I did not have to get married we were offered a good deal on  a house and we took it,no question of living together then.
As for my boys they would not have been able to do the jobs they chose without a licence,we backed them wholeheartedly.
Its not much fun doing earlies without a car or lates ! I know, I had all this to do on the bus,but I lived in a safer age,when I was in uniform I was respected,no so today.
But I have to say that some of todays parents are very very laxed and this is so sad,and they should learn to deal with it we had to didnt we ? I was fortunate enough to have a good husband to help me,sadly nowadays its mainly single parents and broken homes,what went wrong ? A lot of my friends stuck it out because there was no option,now they are glad,but today its too easy to walk away and leave others to pick up the tab.This is just my opinion and not meant to offend in anyway.
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« Reply #39 on: January 19, 2009, 10:14:17 AM »

yes I know you have mac , I just think the younger generation are different than us, they have different values and life to cope with. We were extremely lucky we had rules, unspoken and unwritten but everyone knew them. We had work, we could leave a job in the morning and have a different one in the afternoon. Most of us had family and friends network, we needed each other and helped where we could, but life now must be so difficult, its a must have society and its never good being the one out of step. Where have we gone wrong into moaning about them  and I do as well, instead of helping and encouraging, our way  wouldn't be right for todays youngsters, its a different world, we can't go back, its up to us to change and adapt and help get back decency that will work in todays world.
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alexander
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« Reply #40 on: January 19, 2009, 01:32:07 PM »

I   dont think things  have   changed  since  i was a lass  ...
Was  born in 1951   ...grew  up with parents who where  old fashioned  really..wouldn'nt  watch  a  couple having a  good  kiss on the  telli lol Roll Eyes  ek ...mother, an  dad  would turn  it off  :-\but a lot a  girls got pregnant, ...they  did   dabble in drugs, ...was incest, an adultery ..was bullies, the  difference  was  ya never heard a lot of  what was going on , wasn't in ya  face  like it is  now...
Kids today get to much to soon  an  don't really have a  childhood ...Some  mothers  carn't   wait to get  the   girls in high  heels  an a  bit a  lippy ..
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macushla
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« Reply #41 on: January 19, 2009, 02:22:38 PM »

Val,all we can do is be there for them as ours was for us.
You may have hit the nail on the head there Val,we really should all pull together,not easy this day and age most live too far.But they know where I live they also know I dont suffer fools gladly !
I have to agree I think  we lived and grew up in the best years ever I am grateful for that.
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macushla
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« Reply #42 on: January 19, 2009, 02:25:29 PM »

Funny that Joe,I dont remember any incest or sexual abuse,adn it must have gone on.
Gone are the days when children were seen and not heard !
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alexander
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« Reply #43 on: January 19, 2009, 03:34:40 PM »

Well we all know,  an knew  mac  things of  that  nature just wasn't  talked about an  deffinatley  not in   front  of the kids ..But i  remember a  family who had  more  uncles  than  soft mick  Grin......an mothers  what  did go out an leave there  kids ....an beat the  kids..The Irish family  who  lived  next  door used to put pepper on her  daughters  tounge
if she  spoke  back  ....
   
The children dictate ..thats   why  they theres  so many  unruley kids .
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« Reply #44 on: January 19, 2009, 04:11:08 PM »

Sorry if my post seemed to be having a go at the Children of today, it wasnt meant to be like that.

The way I see things might be different, but when you are told that your Child will be made to stay in the education (School) system until they reach 18 years old then something has gone drastically wrong with the system. Are they saying that Children arnt as mature as we were when we left School at 15 or even younger? Are they covering their mistakes up by upping the School leaving age?

I am not blaming the Children for what is happening, the Parents of the children must hold the responcibilities of their off spring. Yes the said parent can and do blame the Government because they arnt allowed to do this that or the other to discipline the Children when they are young. The Children grow up and have no respect for society and things go wrong, as we all read and hear about on the news media's.

I see every day of my life young girls as young as 13 pushing babies around in pushchairs, yes I always offer help when I think they could do with some help, but you get told too often to F*^" of and mind your own business.

I still offer help to people of my own age and older, I open doors, and offer my seat on a bus to the same. Again I have offered my seat on a bus to the younger generation of females, only to told F*^" off you perv or words to that effect. So sadly I have seen the demise of manners and respect over the years.

Yes there were back in my childhood days women  (Married and single) having babies that wernt their husbands or boyfriends. My youngest Brother turned out to be my half Brother, the truth didnt come out untill I was in my late 30's, but Mum and Dad stayed together and coped with it, maybe Dad didnt know. Today I know one particulr woman that has six children, now you might think that is normal in this day and age, but each one of her Children has a different Dad, Goodness knows what its like in her house on a Saturday afternoon when all the Dads turn up to see their respective off spring, I would love to be a fly on the wall.
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